Combined post baby.

Topic of discussion today?

'RANDOM'. i think it was supposed to be love, but heck.

So anyway.

Mis-communication is a fucked up thing.

Sometimes you may wonder why the other party is pissed at you when he/she is not.

Like for e.g. your sms gets dao-ed.

And naturally the first thought that comes to mind would be, "Eh. Why he/she never reply my msg?"

So obviously you would think that the other party is pissed at you, or perhaps even tired of you.

Of course, it gets worse if you're one of those who tend to think on the negative side of things.

YET.

Sometimes you fail to recognise that it may be because the other party is busy or occupied with something valid, and it just slipped his/her mind.

It could be the former scenario.

But the moral of the story is that one should try his/her best to reply the other party and give him/her assurance so that his/her thoughts wouldn't stray?

Hard, but necessary yes?

Then there is the instance where sometimes the other party's actions make you think deeper about the intended meanings.

Like for e.g. sometimes the other party is REALLY tired halfway through the conversation, and would like to head off to sleep. But because you're not done yet, you feel rather pissed off because you think that the other party is not understanding.

Its natural to feel this way, but sometimes one really should take a step back and be more understanding towards such an issue.

And then there are occasions where you feel that, "Hey. Why is he/she not taking the initiative to look for me?" especially after a period where there's intense contact between the both of you.

Of course, notwithstanding the fact that the other party is busy/sick or blahh any other valid excuse.

Let us work under the assumption the other party is sick of you.

That is of course, normal.

What makes the whole thing gay is the fact that both parties get sick of each other at different periods.

Its fine if the period which you're sick of him/her coincides with that of the other party.

At most no contact, lor.

But if you're sick of the other party when he/she is feeling in-need-of-companionship, thats pretty fucked up i say. Same for vice versa.

So lets say you msg him/her, and he/she does not reply because he/she is abit tired of you.

After this period, he/she gets over the period and appreciates you more and starts to miss you. He/she then msges you, and it so happens that it is your turn to be tired of her.

Thats where both start to have misconceptions about the other, and this subsequently leads to a breakdown in communications.

Sometimes, makes one wonder - why everything is not in black and white.

Clear and concise at a glance.

Completely no guessing games.

Saves one at least a million brain cells from thinking of what the other party may be thinking about.

If everything were simple.

But i suppose that completely removes the fun, no?

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hmm lets see.... i doubt i can come up with anything bout love.... due to the fact that im extremely inexperienced in the area of expertise.... thus ive decided to write this (note: spontanous thoughts....)

ehhh wouldnt things be good if we could read peoples thoughts ?

like in the dialogue bubbles we see in comic strips...

there would be no confusion in this damned world...

solves kidiot's problem (read above)

but then again there will be no concealing things....

no secrets.....

but being able to keep things to yourself in an integral part of life....

we live on the basis that people react to actions and words rather than what we actually think....

often we can control actions and words....

but more often than not, our thoughts run wild.....

the things that go on in peoples mind are unfathomable....

while we put up a great big smile on the surface...

we secretly swear the most evil of things in our heads...

if we were to be able to read what others actually think...

fights will break out on the streets...

countries will start wars every other day....

chaos will definately rule this earth....

coz nobody is a saint.....

haiz....

BUT I REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT SHE IS THINKING !!!!

haha.... will she say yes ????

oh damn.... i jus realised my post is only about 1/3 of kidiots entry..... oh well.... cant think of anything else to write.... so i guess this is it.... our first combined post( which is actually just 2 seperate post mashed up into 1 coz they really dun hav much in common....)

=)